Confessions of a Psychic: What can be seen in love readings
In my last blog, I shared some hard truths about love that I’ve learned from working as a psychic medium, connecting with spiritual beings and passed loved ones on the other side. If you haven’t read it yet, I suggest starting there—though, hey, who am I to tell you what to do?
If you’re still here without reading the first post (or need a recap), here are the cliff notes:
In 2019, I went through a brutal breakup and spent years seeking out psychics, hoping they’d tell me I wasn’t doomed to live alone with cats. I wanted someone to tell me who my soulmate was and when I’d meet him—or that the emotionally unavailable jerk I was dating would suddenly change and pick me.
Some psychics told me what I wanted to hear, while the good ones gave me tough truths and real, helpful advice. When I finally took that advice and did the inner work, I began to understand the hard truths about love.
Now, as a practicing psychic medium who specializes in helping women heal so they can manifest the love, careers, and lives they dream of, I’m passionate about sharing what a psychic can—and can’t—see when it comes to love.
What I Can See for Those in Relationships:
If you’re already in a relationship, whether it’s a marriage, a situationship, a friends-with-benefits deal, or a friendship you wish had benefits (we’ve all been there), I can only read the energy of your current situation and offer advice based on your circumstances.
Here’s some of the guidance I often receive from Spirit for people already in relationships:
Give them a chance: Your past fears might be holding you back.
Nothing will change: You can stay, but don’t expect things to shift.
Meet them where they are or let them go.
You’re not crazy: I hear this a lot from people who are being gaslit.
Spice things up. (Yeah, I said it.)
Set boundaries and communicate your needs clearly if you want to see change.
If you leave, you’ll meet someone better.
He does care for you, but he doesn’t know how to show it. I don’t see this changing unless he’s willing to put in the work.
I know some of this guidance may seem vague, but spirit guides and passed loved ones never tell us exactly what to do. They’re happy to offer advice and guidance, but they won’t intervene unless someone is in danger. After all, it’s your life, and you’ve got free will.
What I Can’t See:
When your relationship will end: Timelines are always shifting, and free will is in play. Plus, I don’t deliver doom and gloom. So if you’re not already sure you’re leaving, I’ll ask Spirit to keep that info under wraps.
Divorce: If divorce is being considered, I can get guidance, but only if you’re already aware of it. Again, no doom and gloom here.
Your “forever person”: Sorry to burst the Disney bubble, but there’s no such thing as a “forever person.” Sometimes we’re meant to be with someone for a certain time, but not forever. That means I might see a solid relationship now with no conflicts in the near future—but it’s just where you’re meant to be for now.
Your partner’s feelings for you: For ethical reasons, I won’t dive too deep into your partner’s feelings, but I can read their current energy as it relates to your relationship. And, let’s be real, if you have to ask a psychic how he feels, he probably isn’t the one.
Now, for all my single ladies (or gents): Here’s what I can see in readings:
A potential romantic connection: I can sense a possible love interest, but I usually tread carefully here. I may get some details (like looks, initials, or personality traits), but it’s not always crystal clear. One time I told a client I saw a love connection and heard the name “Scott.” She met a guy named Steve shortly after, and they’ve been together ever since. Thank goodness she didn’t write him off just because his name wasn’t Scott.
What’s blocking you from love: I can see what might be in the way of attracting love, like not being over a past relationship, holding onto negative thought patterns, or attracting emotionally unavailable partners because you’re unavailable yourself.
What I Can’t See for Singles:
Who you will marry, when, or how you’ll meet: If I could predict this, I’d be a millionaire by now! The truth is, you have many potential great partners. Your job is to get yourself aligned to attract the right one.
Will your ex come back? Even if the answer is yes, that doesn’t mean it’s a good thing. Sometimes exes come back just to “check in,” but that doesn’t mean they’re right for you or that they’ll stay. If I told you they were coming back, you might stay stuck, waiting, instead of healing and moving forward to attract someone much better.
And now, let me answer some of the most common questions I get in love readings:
Am I going to die alone? Absolutely not!
Will I ever have children? If you desire children, you can have them.
If I leave my current partner, will I meet someone else? You absolutely will.
Will I ever get over my ex? You won’t even remember his name… if you do the healing work.
Want to book your own love reading? You can do so directly on my website!
